Merry Christmas!

This was my Rustic Christmas mini set up I had planned to use before I started to not feel so hot! I'm super bummed I wasn't able to use this, but I still got to photograph my own kiddos <3

This cute set up was brought you by: Hobby Lobby (banner, xmas tree, candles & snowman), RugsUSA (flokati),  FeltFur (cream curly wool layer) and Lemondrop backdrops (Hazelnut wood backdrop).

My amazing husband made me the distressed wood bed and I scored the tree stump off of craigslist!

Why Little Things by Marlena is On Hold! - My Story

Hello!

Thanks for reading. As you probably gathered from the Title, we are unfortunately not taking sessions at this time. I'm sorry!

Here is my recent post from Little Things by Marlena's facebook page followed by an in depth explanation if you choose to read -

"Hello all! This is me and my husband Jake. We are the team behind Little Things by Marlena. Jake has been such great support and help to me through the 1.5 years of having this photography business.

Coincidentally the past 1.5 years have been a difficult time for me. I have struggled with physical ailments as well as crazy stupid panic & anxiety. I was very determined to not let those stop me from pursuing my photography business as I just loved it way too much. Jake stepped in and assisted me with EVERY outdoor session I had to help lift things and to ease my mind with his moral support. Either him or my wonderful mother would also assist me with my newborn sessions in studio as well...

It seems though, I'm on a bad streak right now and things keep getting worse with my physical condition and I just have to take a break from booking sessions until we can get things figured out. :( This is so sad for me but needs to be done. I will still post on my page with updates and photos!

I also just want to thank all my wonderful clients I have had! I seriously have THE BEST clients ever. I honestly haven't had a single "problem" client, everyone I have met here has been so sweet and kind. I loved all of you and your precious children"

 


I am definitely not used to blogging about myself! So bear with me haha. This topic is really hard for me to share without it feeling like opening wounds. I am soo sorry if this sounds like a big sob story! Not my intention.

Well.. um..

Ok,

so a little back story of me-

I have struggled with anxiety and panic for awhile. I think my first panic attack was when I was 12 years old. I am now 23 and anxiety has been a silent battle within me ever since. Some seasons are worse than others.  When I say "silent battle" I mean it's always there... It may not be consuming me at the moment but I feel it's just always there in the depths of my mind and body. If anxiety doesn't make decisions for me, it definitely is a big part of my decision making. One way it consumes me daily is when it comes to driving and going places. I have to mentally prepare myself for awhile when I decide to go somewhere by myself. Even right now as I type, I have planned to go to Fred Meyer for 2 days now, but I can't seem to make myself do it.. Maybe tomorrow. I have lived here in Nampa for about 3 years and I haven't once driven myself to Boise. I'm ashamed and embarrassed of myself... My husband has taken such great care of me and takes me wherever I want to go and accommodates my needs. I am so so thankful for him. I just feel like a big incapable baby, and I wish I can show him that I can be more than I am... . anxiety always asks me "what if this happens" .."what if that happens".. "what if .. what if.. what if!!! " ...... So that is an example of the daily struggle.

When I'm going through a particularly bad season I have a hard time even going 7min from my home to Fred Meyer as a passenger without shaking and hyperventilation.  I have a hard time eating and force myself to drink protein shakes so I don't get weak and shaky. In a bad season I can't sleep, I literally can't sleep, I just watch the clock and get upset that I can't sleep. I can't cook, I can't just be ok. I often zone out and stare at nothing, I'm just like... lost in myself I guess. It's not fair to my kids or my husband. It's not fair to me... You can ask me why I would feel this way, it doesn't make any sense, but honestly I don't know. When I go through bad seasons I just pray and hope it doesn't last long.

When I started my photography business I was doing pretty alight! My family had moved from Alaska to Idaho the year before, my 2 children were just old enough to not need my 100% undivided attention. Life seemed pretty good! Then one day after making such good progress and feeling ok something just snapped and I went into a bad season overnight. Literally overnight. I didn't know such extreme anxiousness could be triggered and unleashed so quickly.

I had developed an eyelid twitch a year back when I was pregnant with my second child. It continually got worse and during this time the twitches turned into full on face spasms where it pulls my cheek and mouth to the side while my eye closes involuntarily. I reluctantly went to the doctor who referred me to a neurologist. I then found out that I have a Hemifacial spasm, which is a progressive disease. The severity depends on each case.

Me trying to repress the spasm for a selfie!

Crappy cell phone photo!

The idea of the cause of HFS is a compression of the 7th cranial facial nerve and an artery causing spasms when the facial muscles of that side is contracted. The treatment for HFS is either a temporary fix of Botox every couple months to paralyze the nerve or the chance of healing through surgery. There is a procedure called an MVD (Micro Vascular Decompression) that will separate the compression with a tephlon pad.

So after hearing this I just got severely overwhelmed with anxiety - the fear of the unknown. I didn't want Botox everyday for the rest of my life, considering I had seen some bad Botox jobs for this treatment resulting in the patient's eye permanently closed until it wears off. I certainly was not ok with brain surgery either! I was just an anxious, nervous, overwhelmed, stressed mess at this time...  I am a born again Christian and I believe in the power of prayer and God's healing. My husband and I took a trip to the Bethel Healing rooms in Redding. We have heard great things and testimonials of healing there. So we thought, "why not" it would be a nice getaway anyhow. So we went, and nothing unfortunately happened. I am glad we went though, it was a nice experience.

So I decided to ignore my HFS as much as could and deal with it. This in itself has been such a struggle for me. It's hard looking at people when they are talking to me while my face is going crazy and I can't stop it. I have to find the perfect position for my head to sleep at night, and sometimes there is no perfect position and it's hard to sleep.

Here I am a year after my diagnosis and it has progressed. My "good" side is now tingling, twitching and going numb frequently. Sometimes my neck spasms as well, I hear a tapping noise in my ear when I spasm and eat mostly. I have also developed body twitches over the past year. Randomly my arm, leg, fingers, back... you name it, will jerk or twitch. It's odd. One day a few months ago, I decided that I just had it... I want my smile back. I am now in the process of scheduling surgery with the best MVD neuro surgeon in the US - might I say the best in the world. I am fearful of the risks of surgery, long recovery, leaving my children for a week, and the risk that it might not even work, but I need to try it at least.. But what has pushed me to the point of taking a break from my business is the recent symptoms that have arose.

For the past 2 weeks I have been experiencing muscle quivers/tremors all over my body but especially my arms when I use them for a prolonged amount of time as well as extreme weakness and exhaustion. I tried finishing out my booked sessions but they were just getting harder and harder for me. I could barely make it through my sessions last week without just collapsing. I have no idea what these symptoms are, but they are making menial tasks so difficult. Some days are worse than other, some days doing my hair cause my arms to quiver. When I say quiver, imagine that you are out of shape and attempt to do a sit up. Your abs start to shake! That is the same kind of quiver I am talking about. Some days it's not the quiver that takes me out, it's the extreme weakness. I will be ok and then all of the sudden I NEED to lay down or I will feel like lightheaded and a weakness in the pit of my stomach that feels gross.

 Apparently these symptoms are unrelated to the HFS (or so I have been told)... I just find it odd that coincidentally I would have 2 nerve issues at the same time. I don't know.

I have recently visited the neurologist for these new symptoms. Honestly he was no help and a little condescending :( They are referring me to a muscle/nerve specialist in Salt Lake.

Throughout this whole experience my faith has been tested. I constantly battle doubt and unbelief. I have realized after growing up Christian, attending a Christian private school, going to church regularly I have just believed what I have been taught. I never really asked myself what I believe is true for me... If that makes sense. It's hard to convey in words the religious dialogue in my head. I am confused and unsure at the moment but I will continue to believe God is good... No matter what. Even thought I may not feel it! I know that I know that I know that He is good... He must be right?

Thanks for reading

Sincerely, Marlena.

 

 

 

Newborn Session | Boise Newborn Photographer

Boise Newborn Photography- Little miss Eden was just a dream baby just like her brother Elijah was! She let me pose her, wrap her up and flatten her little fingers without a fuss! Mom and Dad are truly, truly blessed . With 3 kids under 3 they sure do have their hands full as well as their hearts <3 <3

Family Session | Little Things by Marlena - Boise family photographer

Boise Family Photography- I loved the country feel of this family session! My client requested that we have her session at her mom's ranch in Kuna. She said had a vision for her family photos with the white picket fence and horses in the background.

First Birthday Session | Boise Child Photograper

Boise Child Photography- I had a blast photographing Max for his birthday shoot! He was such a happy happy guy, LOVED it. His mom had a super cute idea of a few photos with red balloons and an aviator theme.

I have always wanted to try to execute a floating baby in basket with balloons and I thought this was the perfect opportunity to try it. I'd say I'm pretty happy with the results!

Whoever looked so dapper shirtless with a bow tie? <3

I loved how he looked in the little newsboy hat his mom brought!

Had to get a shot of those long lashes

Although we didn't do a typical cake smash for his birthday shoot, we still did a bubble bath because I mean... Bubble baths are stinkin adorable! Am I right??

Cake Smash | Boise baby & child photographer

Boise Cake Smash Photography- I absolutely adored this session! We initially intended this to be an outdoor cake smash, but it of course had to rain like crazy on the day of our session. I still loved how it turned out in studio <3

Jaden had more fun splashing in his bubble bath than smashing his cake haha! He really did not like us taking him out!

Of course I had to get a couple of him with m some props! I come on, look at this cutie with these glasses <3

Aria | Caldwell Idaho Newborn Photographer

This little princess was sooo sweet! She did such a good job for me, she slept so soundly and gave some gorgeous smiles. She was so pretty and petite <3 I am in love with every shot from this session.

Scarlett | Nampa Newborn Photographer

I love warm, rustic &  neutral! Scarlett looked absolutely gorgeous in all of my set ups for her. Such a sweet baby girl <3

Hazlett Family | Boise Family Photographer

I was super excited to capture this little family. Family photos for the Hazlett family meant alot to them. They needed some great shots of all of them together for their portfolio to start the process of..... adopting baby number 2!! That was exciting for me to hear, one of my sisters is adopted and we love her to pieces! It just warms my heart knowing a baby is going to have a great future with a loving family. I love to see families grow <3

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Cake Smash | Boise baby & child photographer

Boise Child Photography- Declan was such a happy boy who dove right into his cake! I loved it! I had a great time putting together this woodland theme cake smash. I especially love his little stuffy friend mom brought peaking out behind him <3

This boy definitely wins the most messiest bubble bath ever haha! Splashing was serious business for this little guy!

Cake Smash | Boise baby & child photographer

This guy has grown so much since the first time I met him! He was 7 weeks old (1 day adjusted) and not even 6lbs! He loved his rustic outdoor cake smash and reeeeally loved his bubble bath!

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After smash bubble bath!

Cake Smash | Boise baby & child photographer

I absolutely love cake smash sessions. Izek's birthday smash was "super" awesome! This little caped hero was such a ham!

 

This little was hilarious trying to eat the bubbles in the air! 

Ezra | Nampa Newborn Photographer

Ezra was a super sweet little squish! He sure made me work for it, but we still got some amazing shots despite the fact haha! It was all worth it for these adorable shots of this bub!

I scored this fabulous antique enamelware bucket from Village Antiques here in Nampa. I also went a few doors down from them to Puffy Mondaes and picked up some local hand spun yarn and knitted up a couple bonnets. They fit perfect on this cute boy. My husband was sweet enough to make me this amazing wood stool from driftwood! How amazing is that? High end props with a low price tag are my favorite!

 

My husband was sweet enough to make me this amazing wood stool from driftwood! How amazing is that? High end props with a low price tag are my favorite!

 

Brynlee | Star Idaho Newborn Photographer

Brynlee was such a good girl for her session, she slept like a dream. Her mom and dad are the sweetest people you could ever meet. I had the pleasure of photographing them twice, once for their maternity session and this newborn session. Brynlee is so loved! <3

Adelyn | Caldwell Idaho Newborn Photographer

HAAAAIIIIRRR omg look at her hair! So gorgeous. <3 I loved the light set up with the white and cream with miss Addie, so soft and pure. I was super excited that we captured her sweet smile! She was grinning ear to ear. That's a newborn photographer win in my book!